In all honesty, some of the other "why didn't they pick me?" threads make me a little mad because the pnms come off as very conceited and they think there may be a magical fix that we can present to her so that she can join the chapter of her choice. They don't understand the "mutual selection" concept. I like how you're going about this and you understand that it's just a little upsetting not to be invited back to your favorite house. You're not dropping out or making ridiculous statements. Go ahead and vent, and PM me if you want to vent more! One thing the greek community is good at is lending a shoulder to cry on or a listening ear if you are a genuine person. You seem to be going about it the right way and I wish you luck in the rest of the process. I hope you find a house that feels like home!
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