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Originally Posted by Ggirl617
thank you guys. i am not concerned anymore with mascara an lipgloss. they didn't want me. i'm not bitter but i would not fit in with those sororities if they didn't see the great things about me to invite me back. i'm concerned with blush and eyeliner because it was my decision to pick eyeliner. i saw what i saw at the time but people do make mistakes and this i believe was one of them
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Even if you had the same favorite sorority from day one, got the whole way thru rush with this group still your favorite, and got a bid to them, you might STILL be feeling some of the same feelings. There are lots of threads on here saying just that.
I was kind of worried that I should have put my own personal "blush" down first - and actions of one of the blush members on bid day made me believe I WOULD have been bid there. But I went with eyeliner. Halfway through pledge time, I was talking to a blush pledge who also lived on my hall. She liked her sisters, but was really uncomfortable with the fact that they were making her drink as much as they were, and didn't like that they were criticizing her for planning to get an apartment with a mascara the next semester. That was when I was sure I had made the right choice.
Like I said before, there was SOMETHING in your gut that made you pick eyeliner. You might not be able to see it now but you will soon.