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I'm sorry you're confused and upset. It is a confusing process, and unfortunately many very nice girls don't end up recieving a bid.
My best advice to you is to maintain a positive attitude, become involved in other ways on campus, and try to talk to your Greek Advisor about the possibility of COR in the future. Most of us won't have any answers in relation to COR at your school, but your Greek Advisor may be able to provide guidance.
Also, you need to walk the line of not becoming a stalker (popping up out of nowhere with "HI GUYS OMG I LOVE YOU SO MUCH") while still maintaining a friendly attitude toward sorority members on campus. The best way to do that is not to ignore them on campus, and if there are sorority members in your classes you can say hello when you see them and offer a smile. Don't be creepy (we had a girl do that while I was in undergrad... eek), but be yourself and friendly. If they can remember your face and associate it with positive experiences, perhaps at the very least you'll have a friend. It could be the difference between recieving an invite to a COR event and not having the opportunity.
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