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It's probably really mean of me to say this, because I know how difficult it is, but rejection is a part of life. Yes it doesn't seem fair, and no we can't tell you "why", but what happened HAS happened. If you let yourself be demoralized by this it's not going to help your college experience.
Greek life isn't for anyone. You could try informal recruitment if any chapters offer it, or even going through the process again next year. But there are no promises.
My advice would be to develop friends in and out of the Greek system, and get involved on your campus. Just because you weren't invited to join doesn't mean that they didn't really like you. It also doesn't mean that the girls you talked to can't be your friend. In fact I always told girls to look at recruitment as the possibility to meet new people and make friends regardless of whether or not they got a bid.
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“All his life he tried to be a good person. Many times, however, he failed.
For after all, he was only human. He wasn't a dog.”
― Charles M. Schultz
Warning: The above post may be dripping in sarcasm and full of smartassedness.
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