[Dreadloc'd Diva]

For me,it was the opposite. The man I left was a good man,until he started becoming possessive and controlling. He even accused me of cheating while he was out of town. Then he started looking through my cell phone;after that I became both unhappy and afraid that he might hit me,so I told him how I felt and ended it. I haven't seen him since. One of the best things to do in a relationship is to follow your instincts.