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Yes, I would encourage you to read through some of the threads that deal with women who got their second choice, were initially very disappointed, stuck it out, made friends and realized that they are very happy. Give your sorority a chance.
Do not feel bitter toward the girl who spoke with you on pref night. I have no doubt that she did feel very strongly about you, but she is only one vote, one voice, one XYZ among many. They liked you or they never would have invited you back. It is just a matter of where you landed on the quota/bid list - definitely nothing you did wrong.
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