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Originally Posted by westd44
i do want to. i just don't want pre pledging a fraternity to be the result of whether I make a good addition to their organization. only one member is doing this anyway. maybe i'll just have a talk to him and let him know what my deal is with whats going on, whats my purpose, know him and the members individually 1st, and let him know that this is Not whats about to go down and to respect me as well.
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So you attend SIU?
Interesting.
I don't think you are in a position to tell a member of that organization what will not go down, but you are in a position to express your feelings and to walk away from something you don't agree with.