[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by caprice89

I know that one of the groups I'm interested is open because a girl on my floor got in and told me they were bringing PNM's to lunch. Do you have to be invited to do informal recruitment?

I hope they won't think I'm a bad person for withdrawing and still wanting to go Greek. My only other option after this is joining one the local one and I'm not sure if I want to do that...

This depends on the chapter. Some chapters do invite-only CORs. I am not sure how this particular chapter is doing things, but anytime I've heard of a chapter doing lunch with PNMs, they had to be invited by a sister.

I'm of the mind that if a girl whom you hang out with thinks you'd make a good member, she will invite you.

I don't think that a chapter would necessarily think you were "a bad person" but it is possible that chapters may have limited spots at this point and not be able to take very many girls.

Also, if these are chapters you Preffed, they may assume you are not interested since you attended their Pref parties and dropped out.