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Originally Posted by caprice89
I'm a sophomore and I went through formal recruitment this year and at the end I was very confused and overwhelmed with my experience. No one in my family is Greek and I had no idea what to do at the end of the last round. So, I withdrew out of recruitment and was advised to do informal.
Well, now I really regret that decision because I really really really want to go Greek and I'm afraid that now I won't ever get to join a sorority. I want to do informal but I have no idea where to start, who to ask questions, and how can I try to get in touch with the sororities I'm interested in without seeming like I'm creepy? The ones I want to see are the ones that preffed me so I'm sure it won't be a huge problem if I got in touch with them but... I have no idea where to begin.
Can any of you help guide me in the right direction?
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I'm a little confused as to WHY your Pi Chi let you drop out so easily...I mean, you were RIGHT there....
I would seriously consider what exactly your emotions were when you were going through formal recruitment, what exactly was freaking you out? If you felt emotional enough to drop, and you felt so strongly about the sororities that you didnt want to continue....seriously look into that. Try not to get caught up in the "shoulda, coulda" of feeling left out because youre not a pledge now, and everyone is.
Are the ones that you want now (that you rejected) really what you want?
Informal is fine, just contact your greek life office, but seriously consider what your feelings are and understand that your actions might seriously affect how informal goes....you have to understand the sorority's viewpoint, they might be a little confused as to what happened.