During informal recruitment you are only ineligible for further recruitment if you accept a bid (ie receive and sign the bid) and then depledge. Just attending a preference party (even in formal) does not exclude you from further recruitment. Its accepting (or in the case of formal saying that you'll accept by signing a preference card) and then declining a bid.
If someone is telling you something else, I'd suggest you go into the greek life office and ask someone there, preferable the greek life advisor.
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