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Originally Posted by camom
My daughter is three weeks into her freshman year at a large university. She has pledged a sorority and has 51 in her pledge class. She is really struggling in finding her place at the university. She just can't find the group where she feels comfortable. I know three weeks is early to feel setteled, but I would love to hear any suggestions to help her. Thanks
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Just let her know it's normal, and it's ok. Not only is she adjusting to her life completely changing (new school, new friends, new teachers, new classes, etc) she's having to get used to being in a sorority house. She'll find her place, and hopefully it is in the house, and eslewhere on campus (other student clubs, within her major, with a campus job, etc). It takes time, and she's got 4 years of it. No rush to feel "fit in" right now.