[ellebud]

I guess that you REALLY didn't get the memo:

This isn't about UCLA versus USC. This is about sororities. Did it occur to you that if you pledge you have sisters at USC?

Punctuation is your friend. Use it. Correct spelling is your friend (their versus there).

And, when talking to adults the phrase, "Calm your ass down", again without punctuation might not be appropriate. And lest you think that it is appropriate to address an adult in that manner, I feel sorry for the adults in your life.