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Originally Posted by Buttonz
While I can't speak for everyone, I can tell you that this does happen. I didn't go through FR to start, but I pledged a local, got a big (the give you a big the night you get pinned as a pledge) and lasted 6 weeks. We knew when we were getting in (none of us were stupid and there were way to many hints), 3 weeks later...and I dropped. I dropped for different reasons (no one is going to tell me I have to miss my sister's surprise sweet 16 or drop) but just because she pledged and dropped a local doesn't automatically make her a bad choice.
Keep an eye on her but give her a fair shot!
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Don't worry, she'll definitely get a fair shot! I understand that it can be a long process and it's normal to change your mind. We have a few sisters who previously pledged other NPC chapters and dropped for various reasons, and they've done just fine. We've never had one that dropped a local, though - it's a very different kind of group, at least on my campus.