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I think that you might feel that way no matter what group you joined. People don't just "fit in" automatically, even if it appears they do. Plus, you will find yourself in similar situations in life. I started a new job a few weeks ago and I don't have people to eat lunch with every day or to chat about something funny that happened at home. I have to work at building those kinds of relationships, inviting people to lunch, etc. I had tons of friends at my old job, so it is lonely at times, but I have only been there 3 weeks. Make an effort to get to know people and get involved with activities. Things will get better and if initiation is around the corner and they haven't gotten better, then think about dropping.
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