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Originally Posted by deepimpact2
2. Because we both lost our moms at a young age (22) she thinks that I won't feel "whole" again until I have a baby of my own. She feels that way because that is what happened with her. She never wanted kids either. Then once she got married, she changed her mind. She said when she had her first baby, she finally felt "whole" again after losing her mom.
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It's stuff like this that complete enrages me.
I lost my mom when i was 17. I didn't want kids at all then and I'm only lukewarm to the idea now. A kid won't make anyone "whole" who is grieving a loss. The pain gets easier but you never fill that void!!! I would have lost my crap if someone said that to me.