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The good news is that you have a nice group of people that like you.
If I were your "life coach", I would tell you that I'd like to see you maximize your chances for being happy with them. To do that, it is important not to let your disappointment with the other houses get in the way of being totally present for the place that wants you.
I would tell you to get out two sheets of paper, and on each paper, write a letter to each chapter that turned you down. Tell them what you will miss about being a part of their sisterhood and what feelings you have. If you want to cry while writing the letters, cry.
Under no circumstances should you mail the letters -- this is for your benefit only.
Put the letters in an envelope in the back of your desk, and move forward.
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