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because my roommate from last semester is in it and i have a bunch of friends in it
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I like the sorority i think the girls are great I just am a little disappointed right now.
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I completely understand your disappointment. You wanted to test the waters, meet new friends, see if another house would work for you. BUT, take a look at what you said. You have
friends here. You
like the girls.
The advice you got above is good. Go to the party, take a deep breath. These girls are your friends, and they obviously like you because they invited you back. Tell them how happy you are to be back. Tell them that you have enjoyed who you have talked with and that you really like the girls you know in that house. Tell them how at home you feel. Give them some positive feedback to reassure them that you, also, like them. This a
mutual selection. They need to hear good things just like you do!
There are many girls who got their second or third choices and are happy members today. There are also TOO, TOO many girls who decided to give up on being Greek simply because they got their second or third choice. Which do you want to be?
Hugs to you! Hang in there and enjoy the party today!