[PhoenixAzul]

Firstly, deep breath. Relax.

Go to the parties you were invited to. Give it one more once-over. Look around the room and look at not only the sorority members, put the other PNMs in the room. Do they seem like people you want to spend (copious!) amounts of time with? Can you see yourself growing with them? Plenty of women on here received bids to their 2nd and 3rd choices, and made incredibly happy active members. So go to your parties, and then afterwards if you're still unsure and still unhappy, talk to your recruitment counselor and see what she says. I would really suggest finishing the process (meaning filling out your final preference card).