It's great, that you are getting second job. Hopefully she is working as long as she can during the pregnancy. If you can (and if it doesn't freak you out), go to as many appts with her as you can
Yup, the condom remark was SO uncalled for. What's done is done, and there is nothing you can do to change it, so why go there?
I know this sounds harsh, but are you going to get a DNA test?
I hope everything goes well, hon