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Not a dumb question!
I do think when you visit a house can have an impact on being remembered or not, especially if there are a lot of sororities and a lot of PNMs. It can be a challenge to remember the women from the earlier parties and exhaustion can play a role in the later parties. Being remembered is different from being liked which was your original question.
That is why it is important to stand out and be memorable in appropriate ways. Having a recommendation with a nice photo so you are "known" ahead of time helps. Having something unique to share about yourself in conversation that will stick with the active with whom you talk. I'm sure other women here can offer other suggestions, but I do remember how challenging it can be as an active to remember every PNM you meet if you have a dozen or more parties and you meet multiple girls at each party.
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