Second consignment sales. I'd never heard of them until I moved to the south, and they are fabulous. I have picked up tons of adorable and barely worn clothes for only a couple of dollars each, and this includes brand names like Ralph Lauren. Plus they have tons of gear, tons of toys, everything you could possibly need.
Also check out craigslist. I found most of my nursery furniture that way and this time around have found all my slings and other gear through it.
There are a lot of lists online about what you do or do not need. Some people think things that I loved are a waist (like swings, mine was a lifesaver), but they'll tell you that some things like wipe warmers aren't usually necessary. Every child is different and will like different things, so you may want to wait to buy some of those types of things until the baby is born. Don't forget that you can still shop.
One final thought. Now is the time to get the part time job. Keep in mind that your SO may need you at home more once the baby comes. I had very bad PPD after no depression issues ever, came as a total shock. I needed my husband home as much as he could be so I could get a mental break. But ever if your SO doesn't have issues like that, she'll probably want a break regardless. Just keep that in mind.
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