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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06
Slightly more annoying/rude than "When are you going to get married?"
I've seen people brought to tears over it (for various reasosn) and I don't think it's ever ok to ask but people still do.
Any fun/witty answers (or even honest nice ones)?
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This is a sensitive topic and yes, I have been brought to tears more than a few times. Especially when someone asked me this
TWO days after I had a D&C for a missed miscarriage (yup boys and girls, this is how I spent our 5th wedding anniversary)
A question that should
never be asked. For one, you don't know if they are having fertility issues!
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No, Nosy Classmate Who Had 3 Kids At My Age, I don't care if that means I "could be like, over 35 by then."
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I was 17 days away from my 35th when we got married.
But I have said, "when we feel financially comfortable enough and don't have to rely on taxpayer money to do it" (yes, I aimed this at some of my cousins who got knocked up at 16 and have a few different baby daddies)
We waited a bit because we are from that school of: "if you can't feed 'em don't breed 'em"
Don't get me started on stupid shit people say when you are having difficulty getting pregnant again!