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I sometimes wonder what/where/how my life would have been different if I'd put a different group first, but that doesn't mean I'm not glad where I ended up. I don't think I would have been able to be me. Some girls from my chapter are STILL regretting they joined us (and it takes about 2.5 seconds to figure it out on Facebook, let me tell you). I think that they think if they would have been in a group with more "prestige" their lives would have turned out differently. Maybe yes, but they also might not have the friends that they do.
There was a girl during our active years who hung out all the time with another group. It was because there were people in the sorority who didn't approve of her and weren't shy about it. Now, it's all water under the bridge.
I know this isn't really what you asked, but in a nutshell no, you're not alone at all.
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It is all 33girl's fault. ~DrPhil
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