I'm glad that you are staying. Times are tough, but a saying around my chapter is "don't leave because of the bad times, stay because of the good times." I've been there too. It seems as if no one appreciates what you contribute. I was Greek Week chair for Panhel, and none of my sisters thanked me for anything or told me that I did a good job. Imagine how I felt when other sorority's sisters came up and told me that I did well. My own sisters didn't even appreciate it. But tonight during our meeting, 3 sisters thanked me for what i've been doing (greek week, volunteering and family/alumnae day). It made me feel really special, although a little shy
Just give what you can. And make sure you honor those people that contribute to your experience, even if its for something dumb. And most of all, be the best person and sister that you can be. Good luck!