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Originally Posted by SouthernSailor
Oh, I forgot to add - I feel like no matter how much I try to explain how recruitment works, (formal vs informal, invite only events, bids, etc) she doesn't "get it" and it's driving me CRAZY! This process needs to start so she can see it in action!
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I wouldn't worry about getting her to know "how it works." My older sister told me all kinds of stories and I spent so much time looking for the little notebooks hidden in the sofas, wondering what would be said about me later, and stuff like that I wasn't really in the moment, and that's too bad. Her Rho Chi (Gamma Chi/Pi Chi?)will walk her through the process and she'll be fine, along with all the girls who also don't have a clue.
If there's any way to get her to relax, enjoy each girl she meets, and take notes, that's probably the best you can do. That may be one good reason to do the live recruitment stories... makes her think about what she's gone through and why she liked this house or that.
And by the way, I didn't pledge my sister's house.