[Kansas City]

Originally Posted by camom

My daughter has just finished her second round of rush and has preference on Friday night. Her school process is 11-7-3. Yesterday during her second day she really liked two houses. At one, she said that the same girl "rushed" her as the first day and they chatted the whole time. At her second favorite she said that she really connected with the girl who rushed her and they were together the whole time. I am wondering if it is a positive or negative that they spoke for so long. Is it a problem that she is not meeting other girls?

Thanks for your info.

The quick answer is NO, it is not a problem. You and your daughter will drive yourselves nuts if you try to second guess what every member in each house is trying to do or what they are thinking. Recruitment practices can vary from chapter to chapter so having spoken to 5 members at one house and just 1-2 at another house does not necessarily indicate a positive or negative from the chapter's perspective. Encourage your daughter to learn as much about the different organizations as possible and figure out where she may feel most comfortable. If your daughter is extended a bid, then she can meet and get to know everyone in the house.