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No I don't think you understand what I am trying to say. Yes, No means No, and yes the male took it too far. But let's get this, should a women go off with some strange guy? Not unless she's willing to take a risk, I'm not condoning the actiona of rape I'm saying in many situations this can be avoided.
I have a story. I was at a bar and Ibeen drinking quite a bit, and I was dancing with this guy. He asked me to come with him and I did. Well we end up in his car making out in his car. I realized I had made a huge mistake and told him I was leaving. Well I had to fight with him to leave because he didn't want to let me go. Fortunately he knew that no meant no. However, that whole situation could have been avoided if i had just stayed with my friend. I didn't know what I was doing because I had been drinking. I was lucky. Some girls are not as fortunate. But like I said before I could have avoided it all by staying away from him. Not all rapes can be avoided like that, but some can. That's all I'm saying. It doesn't excuse the behaviour, but women just need to be more cautious about who they are with.
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