My vote would be to not extend her a bid. Since she herself has admitted it, it shoulds like something she is proud of. If she is really interested in joining a sorority, she has to realize that each and every PNM and initiated sister has an effect on how the sorority is going to be judged in the future.
Whether or not, she wants to join a sorority, she needs to think about cleaning up her act and her rep. She may still be in college, but she may be doing serious damage to her future.
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