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Prefs are usually lovely parties where the girls will really feel the bond of sisterhood. She should be genuine in her feelings and emotions if she feels a strong bond with one of them and let them know. Tell her to not plan on what to say and let these emotions come naturally. I think it is very hard to go to a pref and not feel some kind of closeness or respect towards the girls in each chapter. I would not be overly or unnaturally enthusiastic--just tell her to be herself and all will be fine. Last week a friend of mine had a daughter go through rush. She was asked at one pref if she wanted to be an XYZ and she enthusiatically said yes. They told her they wanted her also. She put them first on her list but her bid did not come from then. It was a little bit of a shock but she is very happy with the house she has pledged. So anything can happen. Best of luck to her tonight
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