^^^ my response (and likely KSU as well) was more directed at all PNMs and not necessarily your daughter. PNMs come on here quite frequently and comment about being rude in chapters that they are not as interested in. Many of them falsely believe that if the 2nd choice group ranks them high then that will trump them getting their 1st choice.
Bid matching doesn't work like that. There is no need to be quiet, disinterested, rude, or anything else. Good manners always win.
ETA: yep, KSU and I posted at the same time. Same thought pattern.
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