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Think of it more like dating than a job interview. Asking a question like that would be assertive with an employer but would make you a little stalkery with a date. And frankly, there is no such thing as "a kind of new member" any more. Sororities like diversity. The only fixed issues are grades and pleasant personality. You can definitely tell them YOU'RE interested, but I probably wouldn't ask to be reciprocated on that. They will have rules preventing them from saying anything very concrete. They can't make any promises, even if only inferred.
Joining a colony is a lot of work but I think can offer an even greater sense of unity because this group has nothing to draw on except each other. I say go for it, keep your inquisitive attitude, and have fun! Best of luck.
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