It just frustrates me when I read on here that Panhellenic doesn't tell PNMs that they need recommendations, yet you're likely not to make it through the first round without them at schools like Bama. I get really mad about it, and also thankful that recs aren't really neccessary at my school
But I just feel for the poor girls who don't know because they listen to Panhellenic - I mean, that's what I would do (if I didn't know about GreekChat).