tootiepie, my eldest daughter had several very close friends who were/are Zetas, and they are just the greatest.
I think certain sororities get bum raps not only from the fraternity boys, but by some of the snootier sororities, too. My daughter heard several girls during rush week bad mouthing this sorority or that sorority. It was clear to her that she didn't want to be involved in ANYTHING they might be interested in.
This has all been a learning experience for us. We learned that it pays to be a legacy (duh), in an SEC school, you really need recs from sisters from THAT school, and it's good to know people. We were 0 for 3 on those counts in most cases.
Anyway, I'm a firm believer in "you'll end up where you're meant to be", so we'll just see how it all pans out.
Hope both our girls have found a perfect fit.
