This sounds like you are having issues with some of the women in your chapter. Have they gone before standards board? Does the rest of the chapter share your view?
And that's what pledgeship is for, training for sisterhood. If you have pledges that aren't living up to what the chapter wants, the time to talk to them about it is before initiation, not after.
(Sorry everyone for the hijack)
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