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Recruitment is not really the time or place to be talking about boys or parties, so I don't think you should feel misled in that regard. Most sorority women are trained to change the subject if the pnm brings up partying & boys, because that is one of those 4 things that just shouldn't be discussed.
With that said, I think you should stick it out. You've already accepted a bid that you're bound to for a calendar year.
*Make a real effort to get to know your new sisters and those in your new member class.
*Don't drink or party if you don't want to. You should never feel pressured to do something you don't do.
*Find those girls in the house that aren't really into partying & befriend them. I don't know what your house size is, but I think not ALL of them are crazy party ppl. Most all houses have groups of women who don't go out as often as the others
After all of this, if, BEFORE you initiate, you decide it's not for you, then drop out... but I think you should at least give it a chance. It takes some time to start feeling comfortable in your new 'house'.
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