[peppermint23]

I'm a sophomore and rushing this fall semester. I've only been at my school for one semester so I haven't really found my niche yet, and I've decided that Greek Life is something I'm very interested in.

I am very, very nervous. I'm good at hiding my nerves, chatting with anyone and making great conversation. I'm president of a club, I volunteer and I'm passionate about my major. Yet I have this daunting anxiety that the girls I like won't like me.

Last spring I rushed (when there were very little spots) and got invited back to a couple parties, but didn't get a bid. Even though I knew it wasn't my fault, it was hard to deal with.

I'm already planning outfits, make-up and questions for rush. I guess what I'm in need of is some advice on what to ask, what not to ask, and if there's some secret I don't know about to getting in besides being yourself.

Thanks!