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Old 08-19-2009, 08:39 PM
ASTalumna06 ASTalumna06 is offline
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So at this point, she's only been through one day of recruitment? She has talked to a few sisters (if that) in chapters that reach nearly ... well, I don't know the size of their chapters, but I know they have a whole heck of a lot more sisters than 2 or 3!

PLEASE encourage her to continue. Because honestly, what does she have to lose? She doesn't necessarily have to accept a bid if she receives one, but I bet she'll always regret not going through to at least Pref rounds if she drops... especially after she sees all of the new members having tons of fun with their sorority sisters. It's one of those lines we see here frequently... "I thought I'd be ok until I saw girls wearing letters everywhere around campus, and I witnessed all of the sisters having such a good time together."

Again, maybe she'll realize it's just not going to work out for her. But she should realize that at the end of recruitment, not at the beginning (that is, if she has her heart set on being in a sorority).
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