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I really think it depends on the person and their personality.
I am able to truly get along with all types of people. I remember at pref time I had my groups and one I loved and one there was not as much love, but I knew they were super. I had a hard time deciding because I could get along with people in both groups, but overall (outside and in) one was a better fit. I feel I was looking at their hearts only and by going with just that I could easily have been a part of both groups. Some people can't do that as they see themselves fitting with a certain grouop for a very specific reason. I could give examples to explain better, but I am sure you can understand what I am saying.
I do not think everyone can fit in all types of groups. I don't. I also do not think anyone can know 100% that a group is for them based on a quick recruitment week. It takes time and that is why we encourage people sticking it out even if they are a bit disappointed. Relationships need time to develop!
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