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I don't think any sorority chapter "could be" a fit for any PNM. But the time to make the final decision that it's not for you is not during recruitment, it's in the new member period prior to initiation. This is the time when you will truly have the chance to get to know the members and the organization and decide if making a lifetime commitment is right for you...and for them. That's why we don't have initiation on Bid Day.
Truth is, even if you get a bid to your favorite, there will be members you will not like, and those who will not like you. You won't be BFFs forever with every sister. You will share a common bond that is meaningful and important, and as life changing as you wanna make it. The quality of your experience will have as much to do with you as it does the organization, and the only part you have control over is your own attitude and effort.
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True Lives to Live From Day to Day
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