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Originally Posted by TNGirl

I am in a competitive SEC school, but this sorority, well, I can't even say that I support their philanthropy. It sounds terrible but I don't find it as a good use of my time. These girls do not have a type of personality, in any girl that I've me, that is anything similar to mine. There's been girls in my "parties" that feel the same. We've all listed them last but it doesn't seem like they drop. They're skit just bored me and during the pref stuuf, I really had no interest and wanted to go to sleep. I feel terrible that I feel like this, but it really is no where that I would want to place myself. My Rho Chi said that if I "suicide" it puts me at a greater risk for not getting my #1 than if I "maximize my options"

A couple of things:

*You have the same chance to get a bid to your number one as anyone else who lists 2 parties, the difference with "suiciding" is that if you don't match with your number one, you have no #2 choice and you won't have a bid on Bid Day.

*If you're in the SEC, chances are good that you are at a VERY Greek school. If you were to only list one of your choices, and NOT get a bid, ask yourself if you'd be okay with not being Greek at all?

*I guess all I'm saying is, how confident are you that the chapter you love is going to give you a bid?

If you're 100% sure that this chapter is going to bid you and that you don't want to be Greek if they don't--then go ahead and "suicide."

If you don't get a bid from them, you will be out of luck. It's not likely that a PNM can rush again the next year if she doesn't get a bid.