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Originally Posted by TNGirl
I'm in the middle of my rush process, well the end of it, and today is prefs. I have one house that I absolutely LOVE and one that I HATE. The hated one makes me very uncomfortable and awkward feeling and my personality does not mesh well with the other girls. I only have two houses instead of the max three, so I don't want to jeopardize my chances, but if I got a bid from the hated house tomorrow, I would drop out. Advice?
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Now, I'm going to be the Devil's Advocate and tell you to think hard about this. If you are rushing at a competitive school, this may be your only chance to be in a sorority. How many women in the "hated" group have you actually met. If it is a large chapter, you may not know enough women to actually know that you wouldn't mesh with the sisters. Most chapters have so many members that you'll get women of every type...you'll find women that are just like you on any group on campus. There is nothing wrong with accepting a bid from a group, going through the new member period, trying to meet more people, see what the sisters are like outside of the artificial world of recruitment before deciding whether or not to drop.