Actually, when I say he should stop posting, it is for two reasons:
1) We didn't need to know in the first place because...we just didn't...and he could've figured this out without GC.
and
2) When you invite people into your life, on the internet and in real life, you are opening yourself up to informed, uninformed, good, and bad responses. There's no screening process. People, particularly strangers and usernames, aren't obligated to be positive and supportive.
