[Gusteau]

If you're more comfortable with one-on-one interaction you could try to limit yourself to smaller groupings of people at rush events and trying to get to know one of the brothers at a time. The downside of this is it could come off as "clingy" so you should try to maximize the amount of people you talk to on a one-on-one basis that way you can make your rounds of the chapter and get to know as many people as possible and let them see your personality. I don't know if that made sense - it sounded better in my head.

Also, I would recommend that you attend events for as many fraternities as possible that way you can find the group that fits best from both sides (i.e. you mesh well with them and they feel the same way.) It's natural to have a favorite but just don't make it the end all and be all of fraternity experience - get to know as many groups as you can.

Good luck!