[MysticCat]

I agree with Kevin. The fact that you already have friends in the one fraternity means that they probably already are familiar with your quirks and, like you say, accept them as part of what makes you unique. That's a great start.

The only thing I'll add is to be aware of where you feel comfortable.

Well, I will add one other thing: I'm going to be really interested to hear how it goes for you -- I have a son with Asperger's who's making the transition to middle school right now. (He's already talked about starting his own fraternity when he gets to college.) Please let us know how it goes.

Good luck!!