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Originally Posted by auburnmom09
AOII Angel, Thanks don't think I understand that clearly so I am the one who interpreted it as "cut" sinceas I recall from when I went through Rush we did indeed cut them and not go back there. So if she "ranked" them in the bottom five and then 2 others that were ranked say bottom 6th and bottom 7th did not invite her back how many parties will she have to go to? She was hoping not to have to go to the full 12 parties as she is certain several of those 12 aren't a fit for her.
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You have to watch out for this because she's only met them for one party. If she were to be dropped by the groups she really likes, would she prefer not to have any options?
I certainly don't mean that I want that for your daughter, but girls need to be careful. If they get cut by their favs in the next couple rounds, oftentimes they'd be happy to have some chapters to fall back on.
Only if your daughter knows that she'd rather not be greek than go back at XYZ should she be thinking in those terms with the first batch of invites, IMO.
It never hurts to have groups wanting you.