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Originally Posted by PKTKKG
I had friends that joined a so called "top chapter" and they were miserable because they didn't follow what they wanted to do and only followed their friends.
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My sister is correct. I have known several girls over the years who got into the "best" chapter on campus, the one every PNM dreamed of, the one all the frats wanted to mix with, etc. etc...
...and hated it. Everybody told them they were crazy to give up their spots, but they dropped before Initiation because it so obviously wasn't for them. Instead of going with their gut, they went for the chapter everyone was telling them was the best. It might be the best for some girls, but certainly not for everybody. Don't join a sorority to become like the sisters, join one where you can be yourself with them. Well, unless you want to become more philanthropic and have a higher GPA, or something noble like that
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(Anyway, those girls ended up pledging other chapters the next year and went on to lead happy Greek lives. But they would tell you that if they did it over again, they would have chosen differently.)