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I'm so sorry Christiangirl. That is awful. You seem to be a well mannered person, and certainly one who doesn't deserve that kind of treatment! I recently went through the same thing with my old best friend. We were inseperable! Then she stopped talking to me around december, deleted me from Facebook, Myspace, blocked my emails from her email account, and stopped returning my texts, and calls. She had no reason, and even our other friends were asking her what her problem was. When she comes home she won't talk to or acknowledge me even though we live in the same town and have the same social circle. She had no reason to do these things to me, and she was known for creating drama, just to make her life interesting. but i don't know why she would do it to me, some one who held her deepest darkest secrets. It can't be explained. To make matters even more ridiculous, my grandpa passed recently, a person i was very close to. (My real father is not involved in my life and he took on the daddy role. grandpa's are awesome like that.) And she didn't call or write or anything. Her whole family came to the funeral, and i heard no word from her. It was insane. Thats when i knew i was better off without her.
The point being, is that this person probably will never admit fault about ending your friendship, and in her head, she is probably convincing herself that she did ABSOLUTELY nothing wrong. Therefore, she need not apologize, or make contact with your for any reason. And its like the last ___years of your friendship never existed. There are people like this out there, and it seems that perhaps you and I have crossed their path. Hopefully one day they will realize the hurt they have caused, but they probably won't.
My advice to you hon, is to keep your head high, and look at the friend you have around you at this moment. Because it is those who are around you during your hardest times, that are your life's blessing. As for your other ex-friend, I'd just pray for her. There are just some people out there who stray from the values and morals they "say" they have.
Good luck christiangirl. You will over come this, it will stop being an issue with you in a few months, like 6. At least thats how long it took me. Anyways, I would suggest keeping a diary, (if you don't already). Because if you are writing about this stuff going on, you will have documentation, of when it stopped bothering you.... And that will be a triumph!
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