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sorry to barge in but..
There was a girl who was the same way her freshman year in my sorority( I was not in the chapter at the time but this girl told me about how she was not involved at all her first year and had regretted it). She only went to mandatory things. That all changed her sophomore year-she became an officer and truly one of the best members of the chapter. Her junior year she was rush chair and did this for a total of 3 years.
She did make grades though each semester and I guess that to me is one of the most worrisome aspects of this member. Like someone said above if she is truly not that interested/focused she probably won't make her grades for the next semester.
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