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Here's the thing: without recs, you kind of put the chapters in the position of making a superficial decision. Since they have no background info other than what you might have submitted to panhellenic when you registered, what else can they evaluate you on other than how you come across in the really short parties of first round?
And even though it's not really what anyone wants at the center of their sisterhood, appearance is a part of the first impression that you make, but it's only a part of it. And weight is only one part of appearance.
It may not go as badly as you fear if you project confidence and are a great and interested guest at all the houses.
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