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My suggestion is to have a heart-to-heart with her if you haven't already. Her big should be the one to lead this effort.
One of the nice things about my chapter is that all of us aren't out of the same mold and relating to others despite their differences is a great way for everybody to grow. Pledgeship is really an adjustment period for both her and the members. Also, some people are less of a joiner than others. The chapter may be what she needs to draw her out. Give her time and see what develops.
If she really doesn't fit then she'll prolly move on, otherwise why would she bear the expense of belonging to a sorority if it's not her thing.
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